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This new situation is different, and yet my attitude is the same. It would be better for me to break off all contact ASAP and move on as quickly as possible. Instead, I want to ease her exit and maybe spend some of the next two months on a more gradual and gentle goodbye, because I genuinely care about her in a non-transactional way. I will take that clean break in two months, without guilt or regret.
In all honesty, the breakup might be better for both of us in the long run, but I think that the move to California could be a terrible idea. She will be moving away from her immediate family and closest friends to be with two former college roommates and more distant relatives like cousins and aunts and uncles. L.A. is an expensive town and a tough place to make friends.
Then again, I moved away from a lot of friends in Indiana to start over in Minnesota. My immediate family lived in Missouri at the time, but half of the rest of my extended family lives in Minnesota. I needed to leave Indiana to finish growing up. My friends there were settling down and getting serious about their careers and I was the guy clinging to my glory days in high school and college. My first couple of years in Minnesota were rough, but I survived and eventually thrived. However, I made my big move at age 26, while my girlfriend is making her big move at age 40.
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Shellhead wrote: I genuinely care about her in a non-transactional way.
Siblings often love each other in a non-transactional way. Only you and she know how you feel, but perhaps your love for each other could evolve to a love like siblings have for one another. Break ups don't need to be all scorched earth and radio silence. I know several relationships between exes that evolved into close, sibling type relationships. Heck, my uncle who is 78 and has cancer is currently livening with and being cared for by an ex whom he broke up with decades ago, and her spouse.
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I don't even know if the mRNA vaccines weren't so good. Suicide mission. Still scary even with them. Vaccination rate for fully vaxxed at 43.7% here.
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Gary Sax wrote: Vaccination rate for fully vaxxed . . .
Pfizer just came out and said their fully vaxxed recipients have excellent protection against Delta, partially vaxxed almost useless. So spin-up time on anyone looking to change their mind is a minimum of four weeks, even with widespread availability.
Around this time last year things started loosening up and we had to come right back to draconian measures. I think it's naive to think that where we are now is where we'll be in September. We could easily all get sent home again.
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Since the beginning of June, I have attended one party, and had a total of two friends inside my house, though not at the same time. I haven't dined in a restaurant or gone to a bar since before the pandemic, but I have resume working out at the gym. My weekly Jyhad group tried to start up again in June, but they switched to a less convenient venue, so I haven't gone. Most of that group isn't showing up yet. I don't wear a mask in public anymore, but I am still doing a lot of social distancing. Part of it is caution, and part it might be I just feel less need to be around people these days. Also I've got some home projects that I want to complete by the end of August. And I caught the summer cold that has been making the rounds locally since mid-June, and that caused me to reflect on how quickly Delta might spread in areas with low vaccination rates.
Depending on how the Delta variant plays out, I am telling myself that I will try to resume normal, pre-pandemic life in September.
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Even with a high, and getting higher, vaccination rate the govt expects the daily cases to surge still further with deaths also starting to climb again. But our restrictions are mostly disappearing this week even with the 3rd wave in full swing because if they delayed it another few months then the still expected case rate increase would coincide with winter when the virus (and influenza) hits harder and we can't have another winter where the hospital system is smashed to within a few percent of being full again.
This pandemic has a long way to go before it can be said to be under control anywhere in the world.
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That's why the mRNA vaccine concept is so exciting. Dengue fever, for example, has four circulating variants (at least) and people experience multiple bouts, even following immunization because vaccines to date pick just one. With an mRNA vaccine properly designed, you can immunize against them all with one sequence of shots.
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pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33064680/
www.nih.gov/news-events/nih-research-mat...er-recovery-covid-19
www.medpagetoday.com/opinion/marty-makary/92434
www.news-medical.net/news/20210422/Strik...mmune-responses.aspx
Note that it is important to realize that getting vaccinated has less risk than getting covid (duh) but once you have had covid, you are most likely as protected as vaccination, at least to the variants described today. With delta being the dominant strain in the US and UK these days, previously exposed but unvaccinated folks would be showing up in large numbers if they did not have protection against delta but so far this does not seem to be the case, at least in the studies published so far.
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Oh well at least I have managed a few fun public outings this year, but I don't expect to be allowed into a crowd until 2022 now.
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Now there is also talk of the Lambda variant which seems even more dangerous and vaccine resistant(!).
So, is where we're at now where we're at indefinitely? Continual turmoil, uncertainty, rolling lockdowns in different parts of the world, mask mandates coming and going and people refusing to wear masks.
Fuck.
news.yahoo.com/delta-infections-among-va...3g7cG1YZzpir1fq47OUP
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Fuck’s sake, it’s getting to be close to time to round up anyone who won’t get vaccinated or wear a mask and launch them into the sun.
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